What does family mean to you?

Family means everything to me.  I can't imagine my life without my family.
Family is the group of people, who will always love, respect, help and encourage you in every situation.  Family members can also be not your relatives: by your blood...but your relatives by soul.
Family members are the poeple, who will understand you...while others will throw you away from their life for the reason, that everyone hates you, or if you are in a bad situation. TRUST NO ONE BUT FAMILY.
Seriously, my relatives are the only ones whom i can completely trust in every thing, every situation.

Of course i also trust my really good friends in some cases, but i can completely trust my family without no doubt in every case, because i know they are the only ones who will be completely sincere with me. They can  say things, sometimes, that hurt me, make me angry etc, but one of the most important things that i appreciate in this life, is honesty. I am glad to hear what people really think about me. So i am also very honest to people...i say the truth, and sometimes i can be rude, but i say what i really think.
Therefore family means love, honesty, kindness...and i can list a lot of other things, but every one knows what family really means to them.

Authentic self expression

I find this video rather interesting, i have enjoyed it. It  is also very useful for the ones who have problems with self expression.

First of all i learned that this world doesn't need another Bill Gates or Steve Jobs, it needs each of us, with all our talents.

 It is mentioned that in every situation we daily use self expression. E.g. changing our clothes, sharing ideas, posts. Every single thing is a way of self expression. And maybe it has become a habbit for us , and we do that actions without having a porpose to make a self expression...or we think we SHOULD do that. It is now challenging to learn the difference between self expressions and actions we do , thinking, we should do that. 

How we can make the world a better place with our self expressions?  So another question rises...how do we do that, and whether it is realistic to do all that actions in 24 hours or not?

First of all we need to make less sound in our life. Every kind of a sound. To turn off the voices, wich really bother us...or just turn off the sound of a TV, music...and enjoy silence.

We also need to set boundaries. That means to show up for people, jobs and events that let us come from an authentic place. It is considered to say NO in some cases and situations, because every time saying NO to something we say YES to anything else.

The third one is saying NOT MY STORY... we create our stories ourselves, we decide how to act, whether to have a tragedy or an advanture but we are always the heroes. We are the authors of our story.

Of course for making the world...YOUR world a better place you need to lighten up, take everything easy and enjoy life. We work hard on a lot of things, get stressed out to succeed. But at first we should realise that can find our success by enjoying life...that is the MAIN SUCCESS. And do what we really want to do, and what we enjoy the most and don't care about what others will think or say. We should create and find our happiness ourselves. Try to find happiness even in a loss, and be happy in a situation, in which you have never tried to find a happiness before. People consider that the right thing is the hardest think,,,but i have always thought...what if we can have what we want in an easy way...because that's us, who make everything more difficult in this life.

We choose between a lot of things, and no one can blame us for that, neither we can, we choose what we want. It is our life and our choices. 

The next one is Commas vs. Periods? We need to have a pause, break, to breathe and compose.

Express not impress. When we walk into this world to impress we walk into this world with a desire to GET. Get likes, get a job, get success etc. But when we walk into this world to express we are expressing love, kindness, forgiveness...everything that we think we can give to the world ourselves. You will GIVE and will GET even more. You should always ask yourself a question in every action(when you communicate, post ideas or pictures)...am i trying to express or impress?

Don't expect to be perfect and get what you want at once, live for yourself not for anyone else. Even the presentor of the show claimed that she has not always been self-esteem.She told, that she had a period in her life, when she tried to impress mostly.

I am so glad, i have watched this video, this helped me a lot...to understant that life is given to us for making it better for ourselves. 

What a girl wants(movie)

There was a 17 year old girl, called Daphne. She lived with her mother in New York, and worked as a wedding-servant in a restaurant, seeing different girls dancing with their fathers. Seventeen years ago her mother left her father, because his family didn't approve their relationship. His father, then, was married with another woman, they lived with the woman's child.
Daphne's father didn't know about his daughter and was shocked, when learned, that Libby(Daphne's mother) had kept that secret from him.
 Daphne decided to go and find her father, who was a political famous figure at that time and lived in New-York with his new family.
While visiting a hotel, she met a boy , called Ian and they became friends, Then suddenly she saw her father on TV, and told Ian, that it was her father.
She secretly rushes into her father's house and when she was caught she had to tell the truth. At first Henry(Daphne's father) didn't belive her, but then he accepted her and let her to stay at their house.
His wife and her daughter didn't like Daphne. but she did everything to be close to her father and get to know him better.
She and Ian fell in love with each other.
Daphne did a lot of crazy things, and enjoyed her life in London. But later her father started to judge her for her not being serious. She left her old style, and began to act more seriously. Later she appeared in a newspaper.
But later she understood that that was not who she really was. She returned to America, and continued working as a servant. In one of her working days her father and Ian appeared and surprised her. She danced with her father and was very happy and excited. Henry apologised for everything and promised her to accept her as she really was.
Henry also realized that he still loved Libby and they got married, being sure that that time everything was legal.
Daphne did not get to NYU, but entered Oxford.
Since then Daphne, Ian, her mother, father and grandmother lived happily together.

Luxury or necessity?

Nowadays there are a lot of differences between rich and poor people. Of course their life is not the same, but they are all humans. Maybe a poor one can not buy an expensive car, or a house or anything he/she wants at that moment , but they all live in the same way, they all breathe, talk, see, hear,etc and they all are the same people , whom God created. And of course they were not created just to make money and only think about money, but to help each other and care about each other.It's a pitty a  lot of people don't understand that nowadays and rich people think, that if they have money they are better than the ones, who don't have the ability to live in a luxury.

Besides the poor and rich, there is also a middle one, neither too rich, not too poor. And i think it is the best option.

People, who have plenty of money, and don't even know what to spend them on, are often selfish. Poor people, who are going through a lot of difficulty, are more careful and caring. Of course not all rich ones are like that. There are still ones who appreciate their money, and are thankful to God for what they have.

Anyway i think all people are the same in some way. E.g. if that poor one were richer, maybe he/she would act the same way. Other way round the rich one would. 

So it depends on the person him/herself. A person must always appreciate what they have, whether they are too rich or poor.

Luxury is something people don't really need but desire. Nesessity is something that you need, something people buy not to show-off. Rich people have a lot of money, so at first they buy necessity, staff they really need, and than when they don't know what to spend them on, they buy a lot of luxury, just to show-off. For rich people having luxury, is a must today.

The most suprising , is that nowadays even not so rich people have luxury, expensive stuff. Maybe they don't buy necessity, but they think they MUST have the luxury, and then don't have enough money for necessity, because it seems like luxury has become necessity today.

People often crave for living in luxury, having expensive things, lots of money. And i crave for the time, when they all realise that luxury should be in every person's soul, not in their pockets.